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Back in the day, the Lee High Shop was a place where we met before and after school.
The Lee High Shop was “the” gathering place. It was filled with madras shirts and Weejuns and circle pins. It was the place where we met up with our classmates, exchanged news, talked about our teachers, copied each other’s homework, and made plans for the prom. It helped us through new romances and breakups. It was a place to listen, to share ideas, to laugh, to lend comfort where it was needed.
The Lee High Shop is long gone now, another warm memory from our days at Lee High School. We figured we needed a virtual place for the Class of ‘62 to gather and to reconnect. So, we’ve reinvented a portal by the same name.
Here, at our online Lee High Shop, we invite you to catch up on just about anything you’d like. Whether it’s anecdotes, suggestions, humor, or inspirational poetry, hymns, or philosophical insights.
The Lee High Shop is open again, the only thing missing will be those giant, sugar-loaded drinks we loved. So come on in. WELCOME TO LEE HIGH SHOP 2024!
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Mike Hoyt
Christmas Eve 2024
The Night Before
Dear Classmates:
Here we are once again on the night before Christmas, Christmas Eve. Of all the wondrous, often joyful days of the holiday season each year, this may be my favorite.
We can’t help but be inspired by the lovely photograph of the nine stockings hung, undoubtedly with care, by Mary McCrory Plummer’s chimney. They’re a magnificent complement to the magnificent painting that hangs above.
The poem by Clement Clarke Moore written in 1844 that discusses stockings and St. Nick and sugar plums and such (officially titled “A Visit from St. Nicholas”) is probably the most well-known and widely read writing of Christmastime through the years. It has an unmistakable theme that follows the stockings line: “…in hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there.” The key thought is “hope.”
Recently, I was telling a friend that our coming move to a retirement community would be our last, that it is likely we will leave this earth from that place someday. He said I shouldn’t think in those terms. Instead, he advised, view each day as an opportunity, a step toward the future, and focus on not on an end, but a continuation. He was right. A reminder that hope is at the center of things.
These thoughts, this outlook, are fueled by hope. Hope is not only the gasoline that propels us forward, but, as Mary Poppins said, it is “the spoonful of sugar that helps the medicine go down.” Goodness knows, we’re taking a lot of medicine these days, not just the medicinal kind, but what we are confronting in the world around us.
Sometimes, on dark days, hope is all we have. The anticipation that when things turn bad, it can get better or at least tolerable. Personal loss and grief can be overcome. The belief that the horrific wars in world can end and that no more children will die. That the divisions and strife in our country can give way to understanding. That kindness will prevail. This is hope.
I look at the resolve and resilience of the people in our North Carolina Mountains whose lives have been destroyed by a hurricane. Living in tents and garden sheds and makeshift shelters in now freezing temperatures, they are, in their words, “making do.” They are doing the best they can when what little they had is lost. This is hope.
I remember this past season when the Appalachian State University football team traveled to West Virginia to play Marshall. The App State band stayed behind, unable to travel with the team because of the storm’s devastation. But, in act of unfathomable kindness, the Marshall band learned and played the ASU fight song to support their opponents throughout the game. This is hope.
We have just witnessed the fall of an evil regime in Syria, one that has murdered thousands of the country’s own people for decades, fall and finally vanish. This is hope.
We see the doors of overcrowded homeless shelters in our town flung wide open on “white flag nights” so that those who would otherwise be freezing in ragged blankets under an overpass can sleep in a warm bed and enjoy a hot meal. This is hope.
In the year ahead, we may face the sorrow and often the agony of losing a friend or a loved one. And yet, we will be embraced by those who care and remember and who remind us that healing is possible. This is hope.
We see our Lee classmates gather once again to celebrate our school and each other. This is not just a confluence of memories, but a statement we often hear from America’s indigenous peoples these days, “we’re still here." This is hope.
We will see the poor drop a few coins in the Salvation Army kettle, or a toy drive at the local fire station, a child seated on Santa’s lap proclaiming “I’ve been a good girl,” the manger scene at the Baptist Church just up the road in the freezing rain, teddy bears being handed out by volunteers to shut-in patients at a local hospital, and an empty Angel Tree. Each of these is hope.
And tonight, we will again make our way to our churches to once more drip candle wax into our laps as we sing “Joy to the World” and anticipate the celebration of Christmas Day, the world’s most joyful birthday party, the next morning. This is hope.
So, thank you, Mary for sharing your stockings and the promise that, once again, there is reason to hope.
There is no medicine like hope, no incentive so great,
and no tonic so powerful as expectation
of something better tomorrow.
Mary McCroy Plummer
December 22, 2024
The stockings are hung by the chimney…..
Merry Christmas to all…..
Ann Wilson Cramer
November 28, 2024
Claudia and I got a mini-reunion in Atlanta yesterday! She was staying in an Airbnb very close to our house! Attached is a picture of Claudia and me in Atlanta - Ansley Park!! Serendipity!! The owner of the Airbnb home is a dear friend!! Such fun to reconnect in person with Claudia!!
Many many thanks, dearest Claudia,for your precious gift of time! Plus I adored seeing Melissa, Ethan and the children!! So fun and fabulous!!
To all - have a glorious Thanksgiving!!
Mike Hoyt
November 3, 2024
A note and word of caution: At our age, many of us are fortunate to sometimes live through our grandchildren. For some, great grandchildren. One of the hidden gems in all this is that at times we can see our own lives play out, a sort of happy, nostalgic and surprising deja vu. Some connect to our time at Lee High School. Below are my ruminations on one such occurrence.
A memory in the mountains
Standing in a dusty field just outside Colorado Springs recently, seven exhausted high school boys got all the hugs and high fives over with. Their parents had taken all the photos they could and it was time for the boys to make their way to the podium and accept the accolades that go with having just come in second in the Colorado State Cross Country Championships. The little school with a big heart finished strong and against gigantic odds. So there they were, boys who’d become men on the trails west of the Continental Divide. The sun was sinking lower behind Pike’s Peak and the snow clouds were building to the west. For the seniors on the team, it was their last time to wear the gray and blue of the Crested Butte Titans. Some will go on to run in other places, but their hearts and souls will always be on a trail in high Colorado on a sunny late autumn afternoon when they beat runners from schools many times bigger than theirs. It is a moment, a time, they will never forget. As I watched, I was taken back to my high school football team, the 1960 Lee High Generals, after we won the state championship. It took wins over Florida’s powerhouse teams, like Miami High and Coral Gables. It is a moment locked away in time forever. Not long ago, at a class reunion in Jacksonville, the MC invited members of the starting eleven from that team to come forward. There were only four of us left. Someday, my grandson and his team mates may also share such a moment and it is then, and only then, that the gravity and the joy of a time in a dusty field in high Colorado will be fully savored. That day will surely come and it is one of the sweet rewards of growing old and being part of something truly great.
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Going Home
by
Mike Hoyt
September 21, 2024
As I was sitting in northern New Mexico gazing at the Sangre de Cristo Mountains (thanks to Miss Goodwin, I know that means “Blood of Christ”) when my laptop dinged to signal that I’d received an email. It was from Mike Seale about the October 80th Birthday event.
A wave of “I feel bad, because I can’t be there” swept over me again and then the realization kicked in that I can’t be going to my grandson’s cross country meets in Colorado and be in the company of my Lee classmates at the same time. I was once more reminded that you can’t do it all. You can’t go to every funeral, or watch every edition of “Emily in Paris,” or eat everything on the Golden Corral buffet, including the irresistible peach cobbler.
In less than a month, the Lee High School Class of 1962 will gather one more time. I hope you’ve signed up. We’ve been good at these events over the years, thanks to the devotion of a handful of classmates committed to bringing us together. There is no way to adequately thank them, other than to say, “thank you.” You are special to each of us.
The get together in October will take on a special meaning. It may not be the last one, but there won’t be many more. Somehow, that’s not so bad I guess. But, it does add more weight to the idea that we’d better make the best of it. I am counting on you to do just that.
It’ll be a time to recall our days on McDuff Avenue and also to rekindle our friendships. The big hurdle will be to recognize one another. Eyesight dims. Our hearing is shot. Memories are blurry. Hair color is no longer a reliable clue. Even name tags with giant type are of little use. And, if you’re like me, you’ll find yours affixed to a shirt you’ve worn three times since.
The bottom line is, of course, that welcome walk down memory lane. When it comes to that, I have a theory. That the good times we’ve had in our lives (I mean the really good times and a few iffy ones, too) never go away. They just get locked up in a closet someplace until we let them out. They’re always there, waiting and hoping. A couple beers or a glass of Chardonnay are a good catalyst to set them free.
And there’s proof of that. People who’ve gone through a near-death experience tell us that during the process before they see the white, shining light up ahead, their whole life flashes before them like a home movie. These are the experiences waiting to be uncorked and at this moment they figure they’ve got nothing to lose. This is their last hurrah, a goodbye message, a parting gift.
This reunion, will be different, I suspect, than others and I hope there’s a birthday cake. There will be fewer of us, of course. We will be older. Some will be just a shadow of what we once were, because eighty years have been kinder to some than to others. Far too many of us never made it this far. Some of us will have lost our life partners; some will have found new ones. We will remember those who’ve left us and ask why.
One of the really good things about our class is that, even though we’ve scattered, we’ve somehow managed to not only stay in touch, but to stay close. Now, we can reconnect. We’ll share our life stories. We’ll tell of all the health issues we’ve dealt with in what’s being called an “organ recital.” We’ll rejoice at the stories of how our grandkids and, sometimes, great grandkids have excelled. We’ll mourn those we’ve lost. We’ll share in the memories, big and small, of our times together along the Great River.
We’ll think of our teachers and coaches and mentors who helped set us along the path to the rest of our lives and we’ll silently thank therm. Ms. Richter. Ms. Goethe. Dot Thomas. John Prom. Warren Kirkham. Russ Foland. Virgil Dingman. Miss Durrance. Mr. Winton. Mr. Bowman. Benny Arnold. Miss Rivera. That cute algebra teacher whose name I can’t remember. They’re all there still, as big as life and they sometimes quietly whisper, “do the right thing.”
Certainly, there are events we may not choose to remember or to recall gingerly. But they were nonetheless turning points as we made our way along the long and storied blue-gray line at Lee.
The time Frank Ingle turned the courtyard fountain bright green. Dave Crawford doing his astounding drum act. The infamous Senior Fellows Vaudeville. Beating Jackson on a sunny Thanksgiving afternoon. Hurriedly copying Catherine Sears’ Spanish homework. Train trips into the valley of death to play Miami Senior High in the Orange Bowl. Garden Club. The Lee High Shop. Y-Teens. Penny’s drive-in. The submarine races. Ander Crenshaw on horseback. Lou Bono’s. The Beach Road Chicken Shack. Morrison’s on Sundays. Madras shirts, circle pins and Weejuns. HiY retreats. Shop class. Powder Puff. Pep rallies. Hill Thirteen. Commencement.
It’s all gone now. But, it’s still there, alive and vivid and real whenever we to reach out for it. Just on the other side of the wall of time in quiet moments and when we gather again to once more tell the stories, to hug, to smile, maybe shed a tear.
So, enjoy this time together, not as old people, but as inseparable friends who’ve managed to make it this far. These moments together are a gift to be unwrapped carefully and treasured from now on.
So as you come together once more, hold fast to the moment and never let it go. There won’t be many more. Enjoy the magic of coming home once again.
In closing, I invite you to watch this short Kingston Trio video from 1965 and substitute “Lee High School” for “California.”
Ann Wilson Cramer
September 25, 2024
Oh, dearest Mike and Mike - oh,how I adore you both! You reflect the very best of the values we claim to have learned within our years together in Jacksonville! Those are seeking justice, mercy, peace and love and respect for every single human being!! So much love and gratitude to you both for sharing memories, stories and yourselves!!
Mike H - you will for sure be with us in spirit!! Many many thanks, dear friend!!
Joan Harvey Woods
September 25, 2024
Awesome!
Susie Peters Marshall
September 26, 2024
This is wonderful, Mike. Made me cry. Hard to believe we have come so far! Thankful for all of it and the memories we share. I think this gathering we be more meaningful than most. Thanks to Mike ( whom we will miss) and you for sharing it.
Larry Perry
Class of 1962
Nathan Bedford Forrest
September 26, 2024
Thanks so much for sharing at an appropriate time the letter from Mike Hoyt. Indeed we are all approaching the time we start to be introspective. I was at a concert week before last with Johnny Van Zant and was reminded that those things I used to do are much more difficult to do than they used to be. Doesn't mean I don't want to do them, the spirit is willing, but the body says no.
I look around and realize how blessed I am, while my kids grow older as are my grand kids, I try to stay the same age and am losing that battle. My friends, are getting slower and some are leaving us. But we are so fortunate to have had them some only for a short time others for our life time.
Your classmates are indeed a rare group. So many years and yet still so close knit. Enjoy your eightieth birthday party, remember the fun times and those that have gone on. We to will join them and have a reunion to end all reunions.
Thanks for being the blessing that you are.
Russ Camp
September 26, 2024
Mike Hoyt always had a gift of writing. His eloquent words ring so very true.
I can just imagine our teachers sitting around heaven and chatting about their former students. I can hear them saying, “What ever happened to Bobby, or Susan?” If only they knew. Those they were sure would never amount to “a hill of beans” turned out to be a lawyer or a doctor, or maybe even a teacher.
Yes, it is unfortunate that many of us cannot make the chance to renew friendships or to peer deeply to the name tags once or twice then scan for “facial recognition”. No, that’s not possible. What has happened to that youthful face? But time marches on and we are no longer the kids in the hall but faces full of wrinkles.
There are those of us who cannot travel because they are caring for an ailing spouse. Time has taken its toll on us and our loved ones. But thank goodness someone is there to hold their hand, guide them as they walk, fix their coffee. Your loved one will always be top priority.
For me, I am fortunate to be able to stay in touch over the years with a few of my old classmates as we share our life stories. Each time I receive an email from them, my face lightens up and my mind brings into sharp focus the youthful vision from so so long ago.
So wherever you may be, I want to reach out and say, “Have a great reunion. God bless each and every one.”
Jim Hicks
Semptember 26, 2024
The infamous Senior Fellows Vaudeville! Do I ever remember my lines, "Eyes, back here laying lanolin.“ Then, there was a murmur throughout the auditorium, then a rumble, finishing with a roar of laughter. ????
For some reason, my lines were cut from the second performance, thus destroying any hope I dreamed of being an actor. To this very day I remember…
Biddie Black Steed
September 26, 2024
Thank you! Made me smile and laugh, and tears for those we will miss!! John and I look forward to seeing everyone at the reunion!
Georgie Johnson
September 26, 2024
Such a sweet letter. Mike Hoyt is a wonderful writer. Have fun at the upcoming Lee High reunion. (I will never get used to the name change.) I wish Jeff was still here to go. You do indeed have a special class.
Una Howell Pardue
September 26, 2024
Es hora de comer* is another thing Mike and I learned from Ms. Godwin. We had lunch during Spanish.
*"It's time to eat" (for the benefit of those of us who didn't take Spanish)
Les Comee
September 27, 2024
Mike, You write sooooo well.
Thank you
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Joanne Griffin Caraway
August 16, 2024
My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school reunion, and she kept staring at a drunken man swigging his drink as he sat alone at a nearby table.
I asked her, "Do you know him?"
"Yes", she sighed,
"He's my old boyfriend. I understand he took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear he hasn't been sober since."
"My God!" I said, "Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?"
And then the fight started...
(Will miss seeing you Guys in October!)
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Pictured L-R: Dee Ramsay Burnett, Julianne Battaglia, Ricki Buzhardt Marshall, Joan Harvey Woods, Angel Thompson LeMaistre,
Susie Peters Marshall, Una Howell Pardue, Libby Girlinghouse Bernard, Claudia Hart Mally, Margaret DeHoff Stanley
Libby Girlinghouse Bernard
August 6, 2024
Our biggest group yet. No hurricane is going to keep the Class of '62 at home!
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Libby Girlinghouse Bernard
July 24, 2024
Closets
We, the Class of ’62, are of a certain age. Someday soon, we will face the fact that the end of life, as we know it, is nearer than we like to think. So what will you do/ponder when you come to this realization? I’m not quite “there” yet, but I know what will be hanging heavily on my mind: MY CLOSETS!
Oh the dread, when those assigned, will come into my space and clean.
I can just hear the comments now:
“Why in the World was she keeping this?”
“What was she thinking when she bought that?”
“Oh My, did she really think she would fit into those pants?”
“Gee, I always thought she was a clean freak…but, alas, I never saw her closets!”
When my time approaches, and good friends come to me and say, “What can I do to help?” My answer, spoken quickly, will be, “Clean my Closets.”
I will die in peace if I can leave this earthly life knowing my closets and drawers are tidy. My friends will also be requested to tell no tales. If something very personal or bazaar should be unearthed, giggle all you like, but remember “mum's the word.”
So, gather boxes. One for charity, one for each of yourselves, and one for what you least expected to find. Discretely dispose of the last box. Maybe raise a toast and say, “Gee, the ole girl was more fun that we thought!”
Now, after writing this, I feel obliged to acquire some exotic items to hide amongst my possessions, making my life look like it was a bit risqué.
AND…You will never know: were they for real…or just for show???
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Charles Ulery
July 16, 2024
Thank You very much for letting us know of our lost classmates.
It is very sad to me whether I was close to them or not .
Can't help but think of when it's my turn to be in your report. As I get older my values of life changed dramatically, mostly because of all the Wonderful Experiences of Reunions of the class of 1962.
Thank You for ALL
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Rose Ruediger Dreyfus
July 4, 2024
Loved rereading all these essays from Mike H. and Sandy. Thank you for forwarding and reminding us of our past, present and future. I look forward to seeing you in October!
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John ("Hank") Spencer
July 4, 2024
Something sparked a past memory as I read your recent post. It was almost 2 years ago, my wife and I, looking for something different to do, went to the dirt track go kart races in Maxville to see what it was about. We were there early and with nothing going on, we waited. All of a sudden, a car pulled in and proceeded to drive like crazy all over the place including on the go kart track. Then he drove out of site to the rear of the property trying to find another way out. There is none and the front is blocked by incoming cars. By this time, we had pulled up trying to get out ourselves. We had stopped and turned off the car when the crazy guy backed into us. We were not in his way he just swung around as he backed up. BAM! By that time the police had shown up and caught him trying once again to get out. Now, do you remember a band at Lee named Fred Bible and the Continentals? I hope so. Well, the police officer came to give us paperwork so we could get our car repaired. I looked at his name tag, Fred Bible. I asked if his dad had a band in high school. Yep. It was his son. That was a long shot.
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Mike Seale
July 4, 2024
Dear Classmates,
We like to think of our Class of ’62 website page for the Lee High Shop as a place to listen, to share ideas, to laugh, to lend comfort where it is needed in similar fashion to the way it was those many years ago. Discussions at the end of our 55th Reunion in 2017, resulted in a clear consensus that we needed to have the means to gather and reconnect, and Mike Hoyt came up with the idea for a virtual place, this website portal, appropriately named the Lee High Shop. In the seven years since then, our Class of ’62 has been singularly fortunate, not only to have this forum available, but also to have had—and continue to have—widespread participation, to the tune of hundreds of postings every year.
Two of our classmates are communications professionals. Both are published authors, and both have generously shared their writings with us from time to time. I’m referring, of course, to Mike Hoyt and Sandy Covington, both of whom have contributed essays that I have grouped together because they share a common theme that resonates significantly as we celebrate our nation’s birth and our shared ideal that "all men (and women) are created equal."
As you gain the benefit of their insights, perhaps you’ll come away with the same realization that I did: that we have come such a long way from the old days and the old ways—and we still have a long way to go.
Happy 4th of July!
It’ll be Alright
by Mike Hoyt
July 4, 2024
Two hundred and forty eight years ago today, members of the Continental Congress, all 56 of them, ratified our country’s Declaration of Independence. It was a document written largely by Thomas Jefferson and they all eventually added their names to it.
From that moment on America was free from Britain. Even though the Declaration wasn’t signed by all the members of the group for a month, on August 2, 1776, it still did what it needed to do.
It’s not surprising that many of us have lost sight of this sterling moment in our country’s history. We’re too busy cooking hotdogs, driving to the beach and flocking to open fields near the fairgrounds to watch the celebratory fireworks with the grandkids. And, that is likely as it should be. As John Adams wrote to his wife Abigail on July 3, jumping the gun a little:
The second day of July 1776, will be the most memorable epoch in the history of America. I am apt to believe that it will be celebrated by succeeding generations as the great anniversary festival. It ought to be commemorated as the day of deliverance, by solemn acts of devotion to God Almighty. It ought to be solemnized with pomp and parade, with shows, games, sports, guns, bells, bonfires, and illuminations, from one end of this continent to the other, from this time forward forever more.
I’m proud to say that the nation’s first Independence Day celebration was held in Salem, North Carolina, seven years later on July 4, 1783. It was organized by a Moravian Pastor Johann Friedrich Peter and a piece of music played on that occasion, The Psalm of Joy, held a hint for us today:
You give me counsel
My heart instructs me in the night
You are before me
Because You're for me
I'm alright
It'll be alright
“I’m alright, it’ll be alright,” the hymn says. Gosh, what a message for an America much like the one when we were breaking up with Britain. A time of uncertainty. A time of instability. A time of great and unsettling change. But, also a time of great hope and anticipation.
This time, though, we’re not breaking up with another country, we’re trying to break up with each other. It is like the moment when the girl you’d gone steady with for months tearfully handed back your letter sweater and said, “it’s over.” In the words of the Neil Sedaka song of our time: “Don't say that this is the end. Instead of breaking up I wish that we were making up again.”
We find ourselves engaged in an ideological war, a war of anger and insults and accusations that threaten to tear apart the fabric of the republic our forefathers sought to weave a century and a half ago. It’s not the first time we Americans have felt this way, nor will it be the last.
We all know people who now fear that the great American democratic “experiment” itself is threatened. That things have grown so harsh and so bad that even our country is at risk. As Abraham Lincoln told us in his Gettysburg address, then, and perhaps now, we’re facing a test “whether that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure.”
Look, we’ve made it this far and despite the petty political wrangling that’s overshadowing the important principles that hold us together, we’ll get through all this. The country is facing a tough family fight, but it will not fail.
I will never, ever forget that after every bitter Lee-Jackson football game between two teams from different parts of town who hated each other and beat each other to a pulp for a couple hours, all of us players would come together on the field and make amends. It was a time of back slaps and even a few hugs, recognition and respect, regardless of who won.
We can do that in our country. After all, “It’ll be alright.”
“There are always flowers for those who want to see them."
― Henri Matisse
Mike Hoyt
June 16, 2024
Home Alone
There is a hidden danger in downsizing. When you begin sorting through old photos and school art projects and crumpled newspaper clippings, you come across a bundle of rich memories.
Last week I discovered a yellowed copy of a Times-Union article from November 25, 1961, by Wayne Minshew proclaiming “South Beats North” in the Meninak Bowl football game. Lee topped the Red Raiders from Lowell, Mass., 14-0, on a frigid night in the Gator Bowl as 16,000 fans cheered on, a welcome and needed home field advantage.
Lowell is a mill town about 30 miles northwest of Boston, a place none of us Lee boys had ever heard of. But when we watched the scouting films, we knew they were a doggone good football team. They were big and they were tough, what you might expect from a blue collar northeastern city like Lowell. Having faced off with the likes of Miami Senior High and Coral Gables and Edison, we were used to big and tough and we knew we had our work cut out for us that evening. And even though the game hardly rose to Civil War violence, the Raiders didn’t disappoint.
There was a sad and unwritten story to that Lowell-Lee game, though.
Looking at the films on a hot afternoon the week before in the Lee field house, one Lowell player stood out: A running back sporting the number 22. He was a smallish kid. Quick. Great speed. Out of the dark, Coach Dingman called out from the back of the room “Coach Kautz, roll back that film.” We rewatched carefully as Number 22, darted through openings and charged down the field breaking tackles. We watched again. And again. Our linebackers and cornerbacks squirmed in their seats.
It became apparent that Number 22 (we never knew his name) was black. We had never seen, much less played against, an African-American player. There were no black students at Lee, or Jackson, or Landon, or Englewood. We were living through a time when black kids in Jacksonville had their own high school. Black kids went to Stanton.
Fast forward to game time and we anxiously scoured the Lowell sidelines for Number 22. Not there. The Lowell game was, as advertised, a tough, smash-mouth affair, but we were able to win it somehow. Today, half a century later, some of us still wonder what might have happened had Number 22 been on the field that night.
Afterwards, a few of us went out with some of the Lowell players to show them our town. They talked funny, but they were great kids and we got along beautifully as fellow teenaged combatants do. We became and parted friends, but the inevitable question arose: Where was Number 22?
We were shocked and saddened to learn that he’d been left behind in Massachusetts. “Our coaches felt he wouldn’t be safe here in the South,” they told us. It was a startling revelation and one that has stayed with many of us all these many years.
It was also, on that cold winter night, that Coach Dingman at halftime reminded our football players of the hard fact that, as he put it, “This is the last time most of you will ever wear a Lee uniform. In fact, this will be your last football game. Ever.” Now, Dingham was no Knute Rockne, but these simple words resonated then and echo now. And they’re made even more poignant by the fact that Number 22 had gone missing that night for reasons, right or wrong, that should never have been.
Now, oddly, thinking back on that night, on that game, on those fleeting moments of triumph, I wonder about a poor black kid in Lowell, Mass., left out and left behind when his team played in a bowl game 1,100 miles away. I worry that he felt threatened at the prospect and so missed out on an experience his teammates were part of.
Knowing my Lee teammates as I do, I now believe, race would not have entered the Gator Bowl on that cold night, that we would have welcomed that kid like any other talented football player. Would he have made a difference in the outcome? We’ll never know.
But somehow, my heart goes out to Number 22, now an old man like me and along with it, a large measure of regret.
—SOUTH BEATS NORTH—
By WAYNE MINSHEW
Journal Staff Writer
Robert E. Lee High showed an infantry attack so potent last night that it would have made its namesake General proud.
The Generals might have even gotten a smile from the old gentleman when they resorted to aerial warfare, a method of combat unheard of in his day, to score their first touchdown.
At any rate, Lee kept a band of "Yankee" infiltrators from Lowell, Mass., helpless between the trenches and won itself another Meninak Bowl before 11, 875 chilled fans.
When it was all over, Lee had 14 battle points, Lowell had none.
The Generals had some outstanding troops in Carl Crowder and Sammy Williams, halfbacks Mike Scott, Dave Mann and Kim Ross, and quarterbacks Butch Noble and Gary Purcell. An almost impregnable front line was headed by Mike Keesee, Joe Vaine, Mike Hoyt, et al.
Lee turned in one of its finest games of the season. And had it not been guilty of numerous penalties, the margin of victory might have been considerably greater.
Not that Lowell didn’t battle. The Red Raiders were never out of the game but couldn’t find the scoring punch. They got close enough—once to the General 11, once to the nine. The Generals simply dug in and had things their way.
"These Lee backs can really run, and they like to run," said Raiders Coach Ray Riddick following the game. He wasn’t too talkative because he was finding that first loss of the year a tough pill to swallow. The Red Raiders won eight and tied one in the regular season.
Riddick did comment that "Lee has a good ball club."
General Coach Virgil Dingman summed it up thusly: "Our team has finally grown up. If we had played like this in the Miami Senior game, things might have been different. We had a lot of respect for Lowell and we played a good game.
"I thought Ross did a good job.He hasn’t done too much this season, but he wanted in there tonight."
Ross carried the ball only in the second half but in splendid style. He picked up 41 yards in seven attempts.
"Mann did a tremendous job on defense and I thought Butch Noble turned in a terrific job at quarterback before he hurt his arm in the second quarter," Dingman said.
Mann, who runs the 100 in the fleet time of 9.7, saved a touchdown when he caught Lowell end Ray Perreault from behind on the General 15 in the fourth period. Perreault had picked up a Lee fumble and had all but cashed in his chips when Mann came out of nowhere and made the stop. The fleeted General also stood out on pass defense.
Noble completed a 41 yard Lee drive the first time the Generals had the ball when he tossed a scoring pass to Mann from four yards away.
Crowder scored the other Lee touchdown when he bolted over from the two with 47 seconds remaining in the third quarter. The Generals drove 49 yards for that one. Johnny Tillis kicked both extra points.
Lowell had trouble moving the ball on Lee but quarterback Bob Bobusia threw the ball effectively on a jump pass over the line of scrimmage. In all he completed 13 of 23. But when the Raiders got close enough to score, Lee just couldn’t let them.
"A great effort," said Dingman of his Generals. "Just say it was an All-Lee night. Everyone did well."
LEE’S JOE VAINE got off two booming kicks, both 19 yarders. One rolled dead on the Lowell 5, the other on the Raider 7.
Howard E. “Sandy” Covington, Jr.
September 27, 2017
“My Fellow Americans”
It was the middle of June 1966 and the U.S. Army had parked me in a nearly empty barracks at Fort Jackson, S.C., to await orders. I had just finished basic training, had one stripe on my sleeve, and my superiors were talking about sending me to Texas to learn how to string telephone wire. That sounded pretty safe until I got there and heard from one of the trainers just back from Viet Nam that a man hanging atop a telephone pole or up a tree makes a pretty good target when silhouetted against the sky. In the meantime, a first sergeant in South Carolina was having great fun with me as he found chores to occupy my time. (Yes, Virginia, there is grease in a grease trap.)
While I waited my orders, I got to know a couple of other enlisted men who were “in transit,” as they said. Both were from Puerto Rico and as I heard their stories I was astonished at what I learned.
We had one thing in common. None of us wanted to be sitting at Fort Jackson that June. That was about the extent of it, however. Many Americans like me were using their academic standing or a doctor willing to assign bone spurs as a disability to avoid the draft. In the summer of 1965 there had been a rush to marriage chapels as men got hitched hoping that would delay, if not totally defer, induction.
My surprise as I talked with my new friends was that while Puerto Ricans might be Americans just like me, the scales were seriously tilted against them. Both of them were married. They got drafted. Both were fathers. They got drafted. Both were schoolteachers. And they got drafted. They were also pushing thirty and yet there they were wearing army green just like me.
Some months later I thought about these two and their fate. I was fortunate enough to find a stateside berth where I wasn’t going to risk being in harm’s way. With the cards stacked as they were, I am sure they ended up on the other side of the world.
I was revisited by that memory this week as I watched the disaster unfold in the islands. Those people are not strangers. They are Americans. They are our neighbors. They have made sacrifices for this country for years and years. As for me, there is no price too high for the restoration of the homes and jobs and lives now at risk in the islands. Let’s get to it.
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Joanne Griffin Caraway
June 13, 2024
So proud of Cooper’s Mayport Stingrays Team!!!
He’s on far right in group photo.
From his mighty proud Gram & Papa Caraway
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David Hargnet
May 16, 2024
Mike,
My loving wife Helen passed away on April, 18, 2024.
She has been the light of my life for the best 53 years of my life. Thank you for posting this to our website.
Frank Ingle
May 16, 2024
Mike and Ann,
I regret that my medical trend is generally downward, and I do not think it likely that I will be able to attend the 80th birthday reunion
FYI - I did just become one of the earliest classmates to reach 80 on Groundhog Day.
However, if you were able to arrange a left coast Lee 80th birthday reunion, I would do my best to attend, in whatever state of body or mind.
This picture was taken a few years ago. No improvement likely with age.
My best wishes to all,
Frank Ingle
Ann Wilson Cramer
May 16, 2024
Oh, dearest Frank - your note and your photo make my heart smile!!!! Although I am so disappointed that you cannot join us for our 80th Birthday Reunion, we will feel your presence and best wishes!!! In fact, you will be able to feel our sending you hugs and prayers all the way to the west coast!!! So much love to you, Frank!!! Please take care of yourself!!! MANY, many thanks for your note!!!
Frank Ingle
April 2, 2024
NASA's astronomy picture of the day posted this excellent image of a solar eclipse.
Ron Wilkinson
April 2, 2024
Hope he can get the one on the 8th to compare.
Mel Fannin
April 2, 2024
Amazing, God creates another beautiful image!
Carolita Oliveros
April 2, 2024
Wow! Get ready we've got another total eclipse of the sun next week on April 8!
Judy Wood
April 2, 2024
The Dallas-Fort Worth area is smack dab on the path! Am hoping they take rain out of the Monday forecast. Thanks for sharing this gorgeous shot!
Carol Sams Bryant
April 2, 2024
Thank you. Very nice!
Joanne Griffin Caraway
April 4, 2024
OUTSTANDING!!!!
Thanks. Frank & Mike! Wish we were more in the zone to see it well. We visited friends in Charleston last go around.
J.D. Humphries
February 7, 2024
Frank Ingle
February 5, 2024
Ground hog day was different this year. I woke up and discovered that I had just become an octogenarian, or maybe a candidate to become a cemetarian.
I rolled over at daylight and woke my wife by saying, "I bet you never thought you would wake up in bed with an 80 year old man."
She shrieked!
But later that morning, my loyal family members saved the day by proving that I am actually much younger. Perhaps a mistake was made by accident, or through bribery. Here is the proof. I was born in 1962.
Note that the birth certificate is signed by Dr. Emmett Brown and Nurse Ratchet.
Dear Classmates,
By the time we were crossing the stage to receive our diplomas and saying fond farewells to our classmates, Ben Jones had already enrolled at the University of Florida where he excelled academically and athletically. As a consequence, his senior picture was not in our ’62 yearbook. We’re indebted to Mike Keesee for this picture of Ben from our ’61 yearbook.
Again, thanks to Mike, we know from Ben’s wife, Karen, to whom we offer our sincere condolences, that he did not want an obituary, nor did he want a memorial service; so we honor his wishes. Even so, accolades, condolences, or anecdotes will be shared on our Lee High Shop page along with those that have already come in.
Ben was a "Fighting General" and a "Fightin’ Gator" in Gainesville, but his longest and most difficult fight was the one that ended in the early morning hours of January 18th. He never gave up. He just gave out. Rest in Peace, Ben!
- Mike Seale
Kay Marsh Allen
January 18, 2024
So very sad to see another classmates time on earth is done. Prayers for God to give his family and friends the strength to make it through and His peace that surpasses all understanding.
Chip Abernathy
January 18, 2024
Sorry to hear the sad news.
Mike Hoyt
January 18, 2024
I have warm but painful memories of Ben. Truly a gentle giant who, on the football field, could deliver punishment like nobody I ever encountered. He was legendary at Lee and, I feel certain, will be missed by so many from our time and from his later years.
Warren Dixon
January 23, 2024
I knew Ben well when we were young. Chip Abernathy, several others and I used to play rag-tag football in my yard in the 6th and 7th grades. Ben would join us, and the size of this gentle giant even then befitted the player he became later in life. Iespecailly because of that experience, I loved watching him play for the Generals.
Bruce Jones
January 23, 2024
Thanks Mike for the information. Because Ben and Bruce are close together in the alphabet, Ben and I were seated together all through high school and even at Florida. He was brilliant, nice person. A great tackle. We will miss him in spirit.
Kay Marsh Allen
January 23, 2024
"He never gave up. He just gave out." What words of truth. RIP Prayers for his wife, family and friends. After I saw his picture I remembered him. Sounds like he had a wonderful life.
Allison Easterday Rose
January 23, 2024
I remember Ben so well. So sorry to hear this.
*****
Joanne Griffin Caraway
January 13, 2024
Our Generation
We grew up in the 40s-50s-60s.
We studied in the 50s-60s-70s.
We dated in the 50s-60s-70s.
We got married and discovered the world in the 60s-70s-80s.
We ventured into the 70s-80s.
We stabilized in the 90s.
We got wiser in the 2000s.
And walked firmly through the 2010s.
Turns out we've lived through NINE different decades...
TWO different centuries...
TWO different millennia...
We have gone from the party-line telephone with an operator for
long-distance calls to video calls to anywhere in the world. We have
gone from slides to YouTube, from vinyl records to online music, from
handwritten letters to email and WhatsApp.
From programs on the radio, to black and white TV, and then to HDTV.
We went to Blockbuster and now we watch on Netflix.
We started with manual typewriters, learned electric, proportional
spacing and S electric typewriters, got to know the first computers,
punch cards, diskettes, and now we have gigabytes and megabytes in
hand on our cell phones or iPads.
We dodged infantile paralysis, meningitis, H1N1 flu and now COVID-19.
We rode skates, tricycles, invented cars, bicycles, mopeds, gasoline
or diesel cars and now we ride hybrids or 100% electric.
Yes, we've been through a lot but what a great life we've had!
They could describe us as "exennials"…people who were born in that
world of the late 30s, 40s and 50s who had an analog childhood and a
digital adulthood
We're kind of—We've seen it all!
Our generation has literally lived through and witnessed more than any
other in every dimension of life.
It is our generation that has literally adapted to CHANGE.
A big round of applause to all the members of a very special
generation, who are UNIQUE. Here's a precious and very true message
that I received from a friend: TIME DOES NOT STOP!
Life is a task that we do ourselves every day.
When you look... it's already six in the afternoon; when you look...
it's already Friday; when you look... the month is over; when you
look... the year is over; when you look... 50, 60, 70 and 80 years
have passed!
When you look... we no longer know where our friends are.
When you look... we've lost the love of our life and now, it's too
late to go back.
Do not stop doing something you like due to lack of time. Do not stop
having someone by your side, because your children will soon not be
yours, and you will have to do something with that remaining time,
where the only thing that we are going to miss will be the space that
can only be enjoyed with the usual friends. The time that,
unfortunately, never returns.
The day is today!
WE ARE NO LONGER AT AN AGE TO POSTPONE ANYTHING.
Hopefully, you have time to read and then share this message... or
else leave it for later, and you will see that you will never share
it!
Always together.
Always united.
Always brothers/sisters.
Always friends.
Pass it on to your best friends. Don't leave it for later.
I remember getting the first polio vaccine when I was 5years old; it has been called the vaccine that saved the world. Of course smallpox was terrible in its day too.
But we’re STILL HERE, DEARS!!!! ❣️
*****
January 13, 2024
Dear Classmates,
A well-deserved honor for "Coach Barrett."
- TMS
(Screen grab from News4Jax.com Oct 9, 2023)
January 13, 2024
Carl Crowder
Congrats to Leon Barrett - he was one (1) year ahead of our class, I believe!
January 13, 2024
Ann Wilson Cramer
So wonderful, Mike!! Many many thanks for posting this!!
January 13, 2024
Dianne Edenfield
This is great news! Well deserved, Coach Barrett.
January 13, 2024
J.D. Humphries
Delighted Leon is still swinging his bat! Thanks for sharing.
*****
Una Howell Pardue
December 6, 2023
Class of ‘62 Girls Lunch Bunch met at The Loop for our first monthly lunch. We’re going to try to meet on the first Tuesday of each month. Starting on the left and working round: Julianne, Libby, Una, Charlene, Angel, Claudia, Margaret, Carolyn, Joanne, and Joan. It was fun. Hoping for more next time. Merry Christmas!
Claudia Hart Mally
November 24, 2023
This was spectacular, a very special way to celebrate Veterans Day. I hope to soar again next year. I’ll be damned - I’m just not yet ready to get old!
Alison Easterday Rose
November 26, 2023
Oh, wonderful! Wish I had the courage!
Ann Wilson Cramer
November 26, 2023
Wow!! Claudia- you are amazing, impressive, and inspiring!! So proud of you!! Many many thanks to you for the courage to share and the boldness to jump!!
Marie Williamson Bolton
November 26, 2023
Dear Mike, thank you for sharing! I am glad that she is all smiles and enjoyed it! I am with you. I prefer ground activities! I hope you and yours are well!
Biddie Steed Black
November 26, 2023
AMAZING! Way to go Claudia!
Randy Martin
November 26, 2023
Thanks, Mike.
Chip Abernathy
November 26, 2023
Where angels fear to tread!! What a sport. I’d have a heart attack on the way down……..
Mary Elizabeth Barker McMahon
November 26, 2023
Good for Claudia!!
Joan Harvey Woods
November 26, 2023
Oh my goodness! How brave Claudia is! Such a great attitude trusting God to bring her through it safely. Love her laugh and courage. Thankful that life is great for me, but do not want to look for trouble. Mike, thanking you always were keeping us updated and laughing.
Appreciate you more than you will ever know.
Take care and enjoy the holidays.
Claudia Hudgens
November 26, 2023
These are amazing!
Dianne Edenfield
November 26, 2023
Cool.
Rex Wayne Mixon, Jr.
November 26, 2023
That was awesome. Thank you for sharing Claudia’s high adventures!
Polly Sapp Cleveland
November 27, 2023
Thanks for the great pictures of Claudia. I sent them to a good friend, Margaret Day Julian, as Claudia used to baby sit her.
Judieth Baker
December 1, 2023
Awesome, Claudia! I don't even use the word OLD, I say I am getting OLDER. We all are getting OLDER. Sometimes I will say "I am too OLDER for that! But I think I am going to stay on the ground. Congratulations," Wonder Woman."
Frank Ingle
December 3, 2023
I am personally afraid of heights.
I will be ready to skydive right after I am pronounced dead!
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Mike Hoyt
Thanksgiving Day 2023
Thanksgiving’s finally here and a day to be thankful for just about everything, regardless. Rejoice with these dogs that are thankful just to be alive…
Joanne Griffin Caraway
November 25, 2023
Am still smiling after watching that video twice! Worth the wait! Thank You, Mike Hoyt and Mike Seale!
Fred Shenkman
November 28, 2023
Thanks!
What We’re Missing
by Mike Hoyt
Veterans Day 2023
Each year about this time, I have this irresistible urge to give our military veterans a firm slap on the back. They deserve it. But, it’s more than a perfunctory “thank you for your service,” or a free lunch, it’s a real and heartfelt expression of gratitude for what they’ve done and given up for this country.
Those who never “served” will never be able to sense what I’m talking about, but understand that many vets, of any age, know what I mean. I believe that this sense of duty, this sacrifice, may be even more profound now than, say, it was during many of the past, trying times in our nation’s history.
We’re asking a lot of today’s vets. Turn back the clock to World War II, for instance, when war meant a 3-4 year unbroken commitment to hell. Then came the Vietnam era that lasted a year, with a short R&R break halfway through. Now comes a series of “deployments,” in which men and women in uniform spend a few months in a dangerous desert someplace, come home to their families for a few months, and are then thrown back into awful circumstances. It happens time and time again.
This sort of abrupt and unpredictable change takes a toll. It’s mostly invisible. It’s mostly inside. Sometimes it’s labeled PTSD. Sometimes it has no name. But, it is real and it is awful.
To grasp a deeper understanding of what I think’s going on, I think back to our football days at Lee High School. During my playing years, there were four positions on the team where players never touched a football. Never, unless there was a fumble. Interior linemen played the game with one objective in mind and in their hearts: Butt heads with an opponent in the hope that we could move the ball a few yards down the field. There was no glory in this. Just pain and an occasional bloody nose. We did what we did for the team. For the greater good.
Our reward was welcome and simple. It came in the form of two raised arms signaling a score. Or Carl Crowder or David Mann or Butch Noble coming by with a slap on the side of your helmet saying, “nice block.” That’s all it took. They knew and appreciated what you’d done down there in the trenches and they knew that, without you, it couldn’t have happened. They knew that the blood, sweat and pain was somehow worth it and that even a simple thank you and a nod was enough.
I worry that today’s kids, our grandkids, may never know this sort of sacrifice, this brand of simple gratitude. To “take one for the team,” is not a concept most understand. Many seem in it for and by themselves. Many keep their own stats, a kind of scorecard of individual achievement, like a golf score. The idea of personal, but unrecognized, winning of small battles is no longer the goal.
“Team play,” seems to have been lost in a time when every kid gets a trophy, many for just showing up and being able to tie their shoes. No one is asking them to give or to give up anything for a greater good, for a bigger cause. Sadly, self sacrifice and sheer toughness falls away. Adversity is no longer a challenge, but an inconvenience to be avoided.
As Vince Lombardi once said, "Mental toughness is spartanism with qualities of sacrifice, self-denial, dedication. It is fearlessness, and it is love."
There are few, if any, spartans left. Men and women who willingly give it all with no expectation of reward other than a letter sweater that spells out “State Champions” on an embroidered patch.
America is one of the few developed countries where its young men and women are not called up for a time of mandatory service, a couple years of giving up and giving back not just to their country, but to all those who’ve gone before, those who’ve been killed or maimed or mentally scarred for life. The wards of VA hospitals are filled with them, these tough, unselfish warriors who sought nothing more than to serve their beliefs.
It’s not just military sacrifice that matters. Community service can count, too. Cleaning up our streams and forests and roadways, building playgrounds, volunteering in schools and homeless shelters and soup kitchens. All without the expectation or even the hope of recognition, when a simple “nice block” will do.
I believe we are shortchanging the generations that now follow us and that mandatory service to our country should, and must, be part of life in these United States. The rewards are clear, but sadly forgotten. And without them, we risk losing the character, the hope, that has made us great.
This is worth remembering this Veterans Day.
Russ Camp
November 10, 2023
Thanks, Mike for sending this out to the class. There were a lot of us that served in
some capacity during the Vietnam War and later. Nice to be remembered.
Mark Yonge
November 10, 2023
Mike – thank you for sending this! Too bad the activist of today don’t understand why they have the freedom they were born into.
Richard Cason
November 10, 2023
Thanks Mike, that was great to see, read and to remember the best of us.
Larry Perry
November 10, 2023
Mike, I could not have said it better or more succinctly. I am glad for the younger generation that they are not to serve mandatorily, but I fear that they don't get the steel in their spine that is required to be in service to their fellow citizens.
We weren't that fortunate but we know what it is like to look someone square in the eye and either shake their hand or spit in their eye.
Veterans day is somber but a time to reflect and pray for those not so lucky as we.
Dianne Davis Edenfield
November 10, 2023
Thank you.
Joan Harvey Woods
November 10, 2023
Thank you such much for all of the great emails with tributes to our fellow class
Mike Madigan
November 11, 2023
Mike Hoyt: NICE BLOCK and a pat on the back!
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The Lighthouse Keeper
Mike Hoyt
November 25, 2023
We are the captains of our own ships sailing the sea of life, but in times of a stormy weather, you will discover true friends when they don't hesitate to be a lighthouse.
-Dodinsky
Like you, dear classmates, I grew on the Great River, the mighty St. Johns. It was, and is, the life’s blood of our town Jacksonville.
Most of us navigated those brown waters regularly. We waterskied there. We fished in them. We spent evenings on her docks after dances at the Woman’s Club. Many of us even found our life’s partners on her banks. For sure, the Great River never left us, nor did we leave her behind.
In my later years, I took up sailing, first on the St. Johns and then, with a cadre of other guys, on the waters the Chesapeake, New England, and even the far west and the Great Lakes. It’s been a voyage of discovery lasting more than four decades and one with a singular lesson: You’re at the mercy of nature. The winds. The currents. The tides. An occasional storm.
There are so many similarities between sailing and life. Navigating the big waters, finding your way is so allegorical that somewhere in the wind I can hear Ms. Goethe’s voice telling me so.
They are connected by navigation. Staying the course. Adjusting. Trusting. Being joined to a kind of old invisible pathway as you move forward through life and beyond. On the water, we rely on buoys, markers, lights, and lighthouses. In life, the guideposts are often more subtle.
Lighthouses have been around for a long, long time. One guarded the harbor of Piraeus, the entryway to Athens, in the 5th century BC. And since, lighthouses have lit the way and warned voyagers for millennia. Similarly, when sailors return to port, there is the welcoming lighthouse that beckons them home, that reminds them they have indeed returned to a place that is special and safe.
As the Lee High School class of 1962, we are beyond fortunate to have our own lighthouse that helps light the way for us. It’s our website (https://leehighschool1962.myevent.com/) that’s carefully, lovingly watched over and nurtured by our classmate Mike Seale. Mike is, in every sense, the lighthouse keeper, the guy who quietly keeps the flame burning and the memories alive. He tells us of our classmates’ passings. About class gatherings. About milestones in the lives of our classmates. Mike does these things humbly, without fanfare, without bravado, and not for himself, but for us all.
As our Thanksgivings now fade into the Christmas season and, beyond, into another year, take a moment to be thankful for our own lighthouse and its caretaker, Mike Seale.
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The Music Lives On
by Mike Hoyt
September 30, 2023
They’re weren’t the originals, but they were close enough. Last evening in a packed auditorium in the small town of Taos, New Mexico, high in the southern Rockies, the newly-revamped Kingston Trio appeared to a packed audience of folks in their seventies and eighties. I was among them.
For two hours, I clapped and sang along with the now-aging folk group that was the inspiration so many decades ago to our little singing group we called “The Highlanders.” We stole every Kingston Trio song we could get our hands on, as long as the chords were simple and the harmony was doable. Most were. We even wore replica striped button-down shirts we could find at J.C. Penney’s. They were $8.99 then.
As I listened to the old songs again, I realized I could remember almost all the lyrics from those Lee High School days 60 years ago. I can’t remember my Google password, but those words came flooding back.
I could also hear the voices of Bill and Larry and Tommy once more. Voices that once filled the Florida Theater, a small bar at the Atlantic Beach, the Lee High auditorium, and more than a few parties in classmates' back yards. I thought again of a concert in the pavilion near the surf, of the flat bed trailer at a drive-in Hootenanny somewhere, and in the WJXT studio for the Jimmy Strickland Show.
They say that old melodies die hard, that music lives on through everything else. Some even venture that music is the river of life that binds us together, to each other.
I believe that now. And as I shared a memory and shed a tear for my fellow Highlanders, I know that once again we stood beside each other, united in song wherever we are.
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Georgia Classmates Celebrate Early
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Is This a Great Place, or What?
Mike Hoyt
July 21, 2023
Looking back at this past couple years, it’s easy to realize that it’s always good from time to time to navel-gaze a little, provided you can still see it. Your navel that is. I mean, what have you got that’s better to do with all the badness swirling around us these days? Suck your thumb?
On a recent evening, after generous helpings of red wine, we and a young neighbor ruminated for close to three hours about things great and small. Mostly the latter. We agreed on one thing: We live in the greatest country on the planet, perhaps in the history, hands down.
Look, you don’t have to qualify as a flag waver to think this way. Frankly, people who do cling tightly to Old Glory scare me a little. Thankfully, there are a lot of us who qualify as frustrated walk-down-the-middle-of-the-highway people who get mad, excited, happy, and even devastated over daily events and the bizarre, tragic politicization of nearly everything, even your dental fillings.
There’s plenty of blame to go around. Blame the politicians. Social media. The “news” media. The left. The right. Covid. Climate change. Broken schools. Dismembered families. Sex, drugs and rock and roll. We live in a tidal pool of misinformation. News has morphed into entertainment. The internet is unchecked, out of control. Anybody with a keyboard can rant, their voices as close as our hip pockets.
So, in the midst of this disinformation whirlwind, life in America these days can be heart-wrenching. It makes us want to scream and break things. We are pulled and tugged and jerked around by “current events” and “breaking news” under the guise of truth.
In the end, though, it’s us. And we’re better than that.
Americans are mostly spirited and sometimes volatile people. We cling to strong beliefs and are willing to act on them. But we also know how to get along and to enjoy, and share, the rich bounty of this country.
In recent years, while we’re still upright and not drooling, my wife and I visited two places in Africa. While steeped in ancient history and tradition, these places are rife with shocking poverty. To say these countries are poor is a vast understatement. They’re destitute. They have nothing. People live in appliance boxes and cargo containers and drink dirty water. Their lives are impossible, but they don’t know any better.
When you see these things, it sharpens your perspective and shines a light on the scale of good fortune we Americans, for the most part, enjoy. Sometimes when we don’t see those whose lives are in shambles, we can never appreciate what we have been given. Sure we’ll see dark days and we’re seeing them now, but somehow we seem to plow through them toward better times. It never fails, if we never give up.
We’re basically spoiled. Sometimes rotten. As George Will said recently, “Americans get irritated by fairly small inconveniences” mostly because we are so well off. But, beneath it all, there is promise, there is hope, a sense that all will turn out right if we give it time. That’s the spirit America is built upon.
The answer for us, I believe, is subscribing to the sentiment in the song from the Broadway show Annie: “The Sun’ll Come Out Tomorrow:”
When I'm stuck a with day that's gray and lonely
I just stick out my chin and grin, and say, oh
The sun'll come out tomorrow
So you gotta hang on 'til tomorrow
Come what may.
I’m also reminded of the sign over Macy’s department store spotted during their now-returned Thanksgiving Day Parade. It read simply: “Believe.”
Surely, we can do that.
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We, the Elderly
READ ON .....THE BOTTOM LINE SAYS IT ALL .....
DON'T LEAVE IT TILL "LATER".
We grew up in the 40s-50s-60.We studied in the 50s-60s-70s.
We dated in the 50s-60s-70s.
We got married and discovered the world in the 60s-70s-80s.
We ventured into the 70s-80s.
We stabilized in the 90s.
We got wiser in the 2000s.
And went firmly through the 2010s.
Turns out we've lived through NINE different decades...
TWO different centuries...
TWO different millennia...
We have gone from the telephone with an operator for long-distance calls to video calls to anywhere in the world, we have gone from slides to YouTube, from vinyl records to online music, from handwritten letters to email and WhatsApp...
From live matches on the radio, to black and white TV, and then to HDTV...
We went to Blockbuster and now we watch Netflix...
We got to know the first computers, punch cards, diskettes and now we have gigabytes and megabytes in hand on our cell phones or iPads...
We wore shorts throughout our childhood and then long pants, oxfords, Bermuda shorts, etc.
We dodged infantile paralysis, meningitis, H1N1 flu and now COVID-19...
We rode skates, tricycles, invented cars, bicycles, mopeds, gasoline or diesel cars and now we ride hybrids or 100% electric...
Yes, we've been through a lot but what a great life we've had!
They could describe us as "exennials" people who were born in that world of the fifties, who had an analog childhood and a digital adulthood.
We're kind of Ya-seen-it-all.
Our generation has literally lived through and witnessed more than any other in every dimension of life.
It is our generation that has literally adapted to "CHANGE".
A big round of applause to all the members of a very special generation, which are UNIQUE. Here's a precious and very true message that I received from a friend:
TIME DOES NOT STOP
Life is a task that we do ourselves every day.
When you look... it's already six in the afternoon; when you look... it's already Friday; when one looks... the month is over; when one looks... the year is over; when one looks... 50, 60, 70 and 80 years have passed!
When you look... we no longer know where our friends are.
When you look... we lost the love of our life and now, it's too late to go back.
Do not stop doing something you like due to lack of time. Do not stop having someone by your side, because your children will soon not be yours, and you will have to do something with that remaining time, where the only thing that we are going to miss will be the space that can only be enjoyed with the usual friends. This time that, unfortunately, never returns...
The day is today!
WE ARE NO LONGER AT AN AGE TO POSTPONE ANYTHING.
Hopefully, you have time to read and then share this message... or else leave it for *Later* and you will see that you will never share it!
Always together
Always united
Always brothers/sisters
Always family/friends
Pass it on to your best friends. Don't leave it for later
😉😉😉
The Wisdom of the Children
by Mike Hoyt
July 8, 2023
Every now and then, my old hippie self comes out. I wasn’t a real hippie, of course, but a kind of hippie-wannabe because I admired the intellectual freedom our longer-haired, drugged out friends seemed to enjoy back in the 1960’s. Mostly, I loved their music.
In the middle of that topsy-turvy, confused decade, I found myself in Lyon, France, as a student on a junior-year-abroad. It was realty TV before there was reality TV, but it was then that I became acquainted with my hippie alter-ego that lived deep inside. I grew a beard. I wore jeans and cowboy boots. My hair was little longer and my mind more open. Wine took the place of drugs.
I’d carted my long-neck banjo to France with me and joined up with a kid from Chicago with a guitar who was also feeling his way around an alien culture. We took to singing folk songs in local cafes and at student gatherings in Lyon. We were kind of a minor league hit with French kids, at least an oddity. We could hear them muttering “les Americans fous” (those crazy Americans), but fame is where you find it.
Recently, on a sort of victory tour that’s been six decades coming, I was able to revisit Lyon. As I walked the cobblestone streets and made my way through the empty university’s corridors, for a moment time moved in reverse. Things like that happen when you’re old. Suddenly, for a time, I was that 20-something kid still finding my way. A lost child looking for meaning.
In France, at least, children are cherished. As I walked the streets and parks of Lyon, I couldn’t help but come across gaggles of youngsters in their last week of the school year visiting monuments and cathedrals and museums in the care of teachers and a handful of caring parents. They held hands. They giggled. They were clearly enjoying, relishing, their lives as children, their time of innocence, of sheer happiness.
Wisely, the French adorn these kids with colorful T-shirts, vests or ball caps to make herding easier. They looked not unlike a flock of tiny butterflies making their way through the streets crowded with jostling tourists, tour buses, bikes and cyclos that make walking in any French city perilous. They were gleeful and unfazed.
I don’t know about you, but as I pile on the years, my love and respect for little children grows. I envy their unbridled joy, their innocence and, yes, their wisdom. You see, children haven’t yet become jaded and cynical. They are still playful. They are open to life and happiness.
As I watched, and as my old hippieness crept back in, over the laughter I heard the words of John Denver’s song for the ages: Rhymes and Reasons (click to listen.) Denver sings:
For the children and the flowers
Are my sisters and my brothers
Their laughter and their loveliness
Could Clear a cloudy day.
As we grow older and live in a messy world, we have more cloudy days than we deserve and perhaps, just maybe, we should listen to the children once more. It's worth a try.
Dancing the Night Away
by Mike Hoyt
June 6, 2023
One of the distant, but brightly illuminated memories that linger from our time at Lee in the early 1960s are dances. Yes, dances. Not the Lee-Jackson game or pep rallies or the Senior Fellows Vaudeville or Y-Teens or the Mister Lee Hi contest or the day somebody named Frank dyed the fountain bright green or the array of other memorable events that shaped the lives of a bunch of kids from around the western side of the St. John’s River.
And what a group we were. Kids from Lakeshore and Gorrie, from Cedar Hills, from Venetia, from Riverside, from Ortega, from Normandy, we came together in that imposing yellow brick building on McDuff Avenue and forged a family of Generals made up of youngsters from backgrounds as diverse as you’d find almost anywhere at the time. We grew up in the vestiges of the Old South where we were separated from minorities based more on custom than adversity. We didn’t know any better and we went along with it. We know better now.
At no better time and place did we congeal as a family than at dances. Sock hops in the gym. Gatherings in darkened church basements to the dreamy slow-dance songs of Johnny Mathis. But most memorable of all were the occasional dances, real dances, at the Woman’s Club on Riverside to the music of the J-Notes.
Ah yes, the JNotes. Next to James Brown, “Mr. Please, Please” himself, the J-Notes were the closet thing to real entertainers as many of us had ever encountered. They were live, loud, wore flashy sequined costumes and gyrated under flashing colored lights. For us, it was a bona fide rock ’n’ roll stage show. It was a flashy, heaven-sent night of glitter and fun that was open to anyone, regardless of station or dancing ability.
In that latter category, I was internally grateful that there was no dancing audition to gain entry to a J-Notes dance. I would have been left sitting at home studying my football playbook or watching The Ed Sullivan Show on our tiny black-and-white TV.
The JNotes recorded one album with the evocative title “Versatility” and you can listen to the band’s “BlueMan” sung by Henry Hodge right here. In addition to lead singer Hodge, the band boasted five other members during its abbreviated heyday: Dick Curtis, Ed Coley, Evelina Smith, John Sanders and Ron Tooley. The JNotes featured a distinctive, brassy trumpet-and sax-led rock ’n'roll sound that shook the rafters of the aging Tudor-style building built only 35 years earlier.
Now, back to dancing. I’ve lived in North Carolina for the past 50 years, give or take, where the only acceptable dance move is the “shag” and the sound track is a restrained genre of R&B known as “beach music.” Movement is precise and minimal, not the flailing and gyrating common at J-Notes dances. The shag has a lot to do with a slight rhythmic shuffling of the feet in time to “Under the Boardwalk” or “60 Minute Man” and not the wild, almost out of control tribal boogie-like movements we tried on the Woman’s Club dance floor. There were few choreographic rules, it seemed. Almost everything went as long as it involved movement and perspiration and a lot of gesticulating. It was always a source of amazement that nobody was ever hurt, at least seriously.
As we went through our days and nights at Lee, new dances came along. I recall one JNotes event when my date introduced the Twist. I’d never heard of Chubby Checker until then and certainly had never seen, much less attempted, to stand in one place and try to dislocate my pelvis or injure my lower back somewhere around vertebrae L4 or L5. I have a theory that many back problems some of us experience today are traceable to this then bizarre craze.
Then came the Watusi, the Mashed Potato, the Monster Mash, the Hully Gully, the Swim, the Hitch Hike and the Locomotion. All were intended to intimidate boys, even the good athletes, and delight their dates. We wore out many pairs of Weejuns and white socks on that wooden dance floor near the river.
We may never know what became of the J-Notes, but the Woman’s Club was demolished in 2016, a victim to termites. I feel certain the building was weakened by overly-exuberant dancing back in the day and the termites merely finished the job. Some say the insects were attracted by the music.
Like so much in our lives, the sounds and the lights and the reverberating bass have faded off someplace where good memories reside. These things are now stored in a dark attic that we, from time to time, visit in our sweet, but quieter moments. In the words of the spiritual, “It's not far, just close by, through an open door,” and we can go there whenever we want.
The music has faded, but we’re still dancing. As best we can.
Dance, then, wherever you may be,
I am the Lord of the dance, said he,
And I'll lead you all, wherever you may be,
And I’ll lead you all in the dance, said he.
-Sydney Carter
Authorities try to determine why Venice canal turned green
Italian authorities are looking into the causes of the abnormal water pigmentation around the landmark Rialto Bridge.
This is why water in the Venice Canal turned bright green, officials say
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This is good news for our own Frank Ingle, who was allegedly on Interpol’s list of possible suspects owing to his previously confessed pranks putting green dye in the courtyard water fountain during his days at Lee High School.
Thanks to those of our classmates who offered tongue-in-cheek suggestions as to the identity of the likely prankster. See what they had to say—as well as Frank’s protestations of innocence—in the comments below. Alas, many of us were willing to show our support for you, Frank, by traveling to Venice to visit you in il penitenziario! We’re glad it wasn’t you, but a trip to Italy this time of year sure would have been nice! 😜
Su Chandler Ferguson
April 3, 2022
I regret I am unable to be present for our 60th Class Reunion as I know it will be a funfilled time for those attending. I have been following the email notices and information as though I were attending and look forward to the after-party postings. So, my friends, "thanks" and again enjoy every minute of the reunion as this is the "stuff" memories are made of....
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Dear Classmates, I kept putting off this email because I was intent on attending our 60th Class Reunion but, health problems just keep on hitting me. I will not have healed enough from extensive dental surgery in late February to enable me to attend by the end of May.
I was looking forward to being in Jacksonville. I'm a genealogist and have been working on my Grant-Jones & Allied Families Family Tree since 1989. I feel strongly that some of my classmates whose parents moved from Madison County, Florida, may also be a cousins of mine. The escalating gas prices and economy are also making it difficult to travel now. I always drive south so I can do my family research in Kentucky, Alabama, Georgia, Tennessee, South Carolina, Mississippi and Florida after leaving Minnesota. I refused to fly before COVID-19 and refuse to do so now that the airlines are so weird. I'm sorry I went on so much. I've got Minnesota Cabin Fever from 7 months of Winter. We had 2" of snow again last night! I miss Florida!
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https://laughingsquid.com/paralympic-games-wheelchair-hand-ballet/
A Beautifully Expressive Hand Ballet Performed by 128 Performers in Wheelchairs for the Paralympic Games
October 19, 2021
As part of the 2020 Tokyo Paralympic Games closing handoff ceremony, French choregrapher Sadeck Waff created an absolutely gorgeous and beautifully expressive hand ballet performed by both professional and amateur performers in wheelchairs. The performance opened with Oxandre Pecku, the first person in France to receive a “bionic” arm from Open Bionics, and then turned to the stage of the wheelchair performers who gracefully moved their arms in time with each other and with the music, which was composed by Woodkid and performed by Orchestre National de France.(Translated) Original choreography created by Sadeck Waff. Sadeck Waff, Oxandre Peckeu and 126 professional and amateur performers. Thanks to the Neodance Academy and their teams for the casting and management of the dancers.
There is magic everywhere, the key is knowing how to look, know how to see and listen in silence, like a cloud of birds forming waves in the sky, each individual has his own identity, but an irreplaceable place in the whole.
The final move was to create “2024” with their hands, signifying the upcoming Paralympic Games in 2024via swissmiss
In this forest, and on this date January 11, 2022, the dreaded shape-shifting dragon Grendel was defeated by Warriors Maya Sullivan, in armor, and Jaia Sullivan, disguised as a young panther. The mighty battle raged on for days until finally Panther sprang upon Grendel's back, allowing Maya's lance to find a chink in the dragon's armor, and slay it. Here, Jaia shares a symbol of everlasting friendship between her clan and Maya's clan.
In recognition of this great victory, Her Majesty the Queen named both Warriors the exalted title of "Warrior Woman", and bestowed upon them the Queendom's highest honor, knighting them to be known forever as Dame Maya Sullivan, of the ancient Order of St. George Dame Jaia Sullivan, of the ancient Order of St. George.*
*The two warriors are my two granddaughters Maya Sullivan, and Jaia Sullivan, aged 15 and 12.
My granddaughters started creating their own plays long ago, in their improvised "Rain Hall Theater" in our living room. I had planned to interest them in becoming published authors. I offered them my crude attempts as starting points, and asked them to create their own stories around them, and add more of their own original artwork to illustrate the story. I would have been happy if they accepted the challenge, whether it was ever published or not. Unfortunately, even the youngest among the six have now grown to ages 12 and 15, and their interests are more toward K-Pop music and dance. Perhaps some of our own classmates have younger grandchildren whose brilliant creativity still allows them to envision stories we old folks can no longer imagine.
I intended the purpose of this activity to be bringing grandparents closer to grandchildren, and not for our classmates to compete with each other.I had in mind having the adult start a story, and asking the grandchildren to change it, finish the story, and to create their own artwork to illustrate it. The effort pays off best if the kid's contributions dominate the result, and inspire the kids to do another.
I would help the kid "publish" the "book" as the first author, and get a few copies printed and bound just for the family (or to support their application to college or grad school).
For example: https://www.lulu.com/create/print-booksAnd for adult peservation, our classmates might well choose to form a Zoom writers group to write, edit, and review each other's work.
Larry Perry (Lake Shore)
February 17, 2022
If that doesn't set you on fire, then your wood is wet!
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Mike Hoyt
February 1, 2022
As we grow older, and presumably wiser, we sometimes forget that our children (and now, our grandkids) can serve up a considerable amount of innocent wisdom. In his plaintive song “Rhymes and Reasons,” John Denver reminds us of this reality. So, after you’ve listened to Denver’s words, here's proof from our classmate Honey (Volkwein) Moore:
Donna Dreyer Schorrak
January 8, 2022
Today I was in a shoe store that sells only shoes, nothing else. A young girl with a tattoo and green hair walked over to me and asked, "What brings you in today, I looked at her and said, "I'm interested in buying a refrigerator." She didn't quite know how to respond, had that deer in the headlights look.
I was thinking about old age and decided that old age is when you still have something on the ball, but you are just too tired to bounce it.
When people see a cat's litter box they always say, "Oh, have you got a cat" I just say, "No, it's for company!"
Employment application blanks always ask who is to be called in case of an emergency. I think you should write, "An ambulance."
The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight because by then your body and your fat have gotten to be really good friends.
The easiest way to find something lost around the house is to buy a replacement.
Have you ever noticed: The Roman Numerals for forty (40) are XL.
The sole purpose of a child's middle name is so he knows when he's really in trouble.
Did you ever notice that when you put the 2 words "The" and "IRS" together it spells "Theirs"
Aging: Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it.
Some people try to turn back their "odometers." Not me!
I want people to know why I look this way. I've traveled a long way and a lot of the roads were not paved.
Ah! Being young is beautiful, but being old is comfortable.
Lord, keep your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth.
May you always have:
Love to share,
Cash to spare,
Tires with air, and
Friends who care.
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L - R Larry Silas, Jim McCune(REL 61), Walt Shaw (not REL), Clyde Anderson, Charles Crews, Don Musselwhite
Today, I moved our hummingbird feeder from its place in the side yard where it hung from the branch of a Russian Olive tree. We’d decided the feeder was too far removed for us to enjoy viewing our tiny friends.
While taking down the feeder, a pair of hummingbirds showed up to demonstrate their displeasure at the move. They must have thought I was closing down their little restaurant rather than simply relocating to a new address outside our living room window. They were pretty vocal about it. Two clearly unhappy birds buzzed around my head telling me they didn’t want their food truck moved.
But their angst was short lived. Soon, the feeder was in place in its new home outside the living room window. As I climbed down the small ladder after securing the feeder under the eave, a hummingbird began whirring around my head, circling and peeping in an amazingly loud voice for a creature no bigger than your thumb. It was almost as if he was saying “thank you.”
Then, he perched on the feeder just a foot away and enjoyed a long and relaxed sugary snack. I’ve never been that close to a hummingbird and it was a special moment. Maybe for both of us.
I am convinced that God’s creatures speak to us, if even with a small voice.
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special.
When Sarah Fuller became the first female to score in a Power Five college football game recently, she booted in a new era with an extra point. Fuller, who plays for Vanderbilt, won’t make it to the NFL, but that’s not her aim. She just wanted to do it and she’ll not only go down in football history, but may have opened a door to other young women who want to play the sport.
At Lee, football was pretty much king. I don’t know why and it’s not meant to demean other sports at our school, but playing football was a big ticket for a teenage kid for one reason: It helped pave the way to get girls’ attention. And that’s all it took to put up with getting your butt kicked a lot by guys from Miami High.
But one night a year back then, it was the girls’ turn. The annual Powder Puff football game was much anticipated and it was a huge deal. Something on the order of 80 senior girls put on pads and helmets and went at it tooth and nail in a night game on the field behind the school before a big, screaming crowd.
The term “powder puff” is grossly misleading. I mean we’re talking full speed, head-knocking, no-holds-barred tackle football with all the trimmings. Imagine a girl fight with 22 participants at a time. This was no lavender and lace affair, it was smash-mouth football at its fiercest.
On December 18, 1962, the Powders clad in gray, and the Puffs decked out in royal blue, streamed out of the field house and the crowd roared its approval.
On the sidelines, the roles were also reversed as a couple dozen guys took on the guise of cheerleaders. Instead of the alluring short skirts worn by the real cheerleaders, out came a conglomeration of shorts, T-shirts, a smattering of silly hats, and strange body makeup. They were as goofy as the girl gridiron stars were intense.
I was one of the Puff coaches who, along with three other guys on the Lee boys’ football team, thought we knew how to coach. We were delusional. Just because you play the game is no guarantee you can either teach it or motivate others to smack into opposing players while running at full speed. It hurts. And it can put you in an ambulance.
On game day, we coaches all wore ill-conceived attire that resembled what we imagined real football coaches wore on the sidelines.The outfits included long coats and sadly inappropriate hats of various descriptions. Old photos tell the story: We looked downright silly, but back then somehow we didn’t know the difference or didn’t care.
Now, back to coaching. There was a lot of on-the-job training involved. We didn’t dare let on to the gils that we hadn’t a clue about coaching football, much less girls football. I point this out not out of misogyny, but from a sense of total surprise and delight at how serious and adept our girls were at playing this violent sport.
Years later, I had a conversation with UNC girls’ soccer coach Anson Dorrance who’s won more national titles than I can count. Dorrance shared two tips I could have used almost 60 years before. First, never praise a player when she does well in front of the team. Her teammates will hate her, he confided. Conversely, never criticize a player when she makes a mistake. She’ll hate you forever.
This was tricky for us guys, because we wanted to go out with most of the girls on our team. And making enemies was certainly not in our crude adolescent playbook. You don’t scream at someone you want to take to the prom.
All we knew from years on the practice field was getting yelled out was, well, coaching. And worst, when you made a mistake the whole team was punished with “gassers” or wind sprints. Trust me, these techniques do not work with female players.
We practiced and practiced hard for a couple weeks leading up to the game. The first day was spent untangling the mysteries of wearing football equipment which, of course, wasn’t normal or comfortable attire for our girls. They used all the pads, the helmets, and other football accoutrements, everything except cleats thankfully.
We tried hard, but were quickly ushered from the locker room long before the suiting up began. We were robbed of what we’d hoped would be one of the perks of Powder Puff coaching.
We “coached” as best we could, using all the techniques that had been ground into us over time on the practice field. Running, calisthenics, blocking and tackling, scrimmages, learning a basic playbook, the works. They got down in the dirt. They smacked into each other. And when they got banged up, they shook it off. Nobody cried.
The girls learned in just a few intense days what took their male counterparts months, sometimes years, to comprehend. I now know why girls excel in the classroom: They paid attention, and they were quick, eager learners. And, on the football field, they were fearless competitors.
Now, there were a few notable differences. Throwing a forward pass with a football is not a natural motion for females, but our quarterbacks got it and threw a tight spiral when all was said and done.
There was also a fair amount of yelling and shrieking, but unlike the guys, no cussing. No fighting. No trash talk. There may have been a little scratching and clawing when players piled up, but nothing that would draw an unsportsmanlike — make that “unsportswomanlike” — penalty come game time.
“Targeting” wasn’t an infraction back then, but our gals had no fear of lowering their heads and “sticking it” to opposing players. Thankfully, there were no injuries — at least serious ones — but if you don’t think our Lee girls could wreak havoc when they put the pads on, you'd better think again.
What we didn’t anticipate, though, was how seriously our girls would take the game that night. I sensed women were competitive, but they took it to another level under the lights that Friday.
The 1962 “Blue and Gray” called the annual game a “feud.” Mary McCrory scored the first touchdown for the Powders and Cynthia Prado scored two, along with Mary Helen Carswell who put one in the end zone. Catherine Sears scored the solitary touchdown for the Puffs and we ended up losing by the unusual score of 25-6. Nobody cried, except the coaches.
It was a tough, grinding, head-butting, entertaining couple of hours that was an unexpected learning experience for all of us. I think the players learned they were up to the task and were able to do difficult things, things that hurt and that were patently ungirl-like.
We, their coaches or, better still, handlers, gained tremendous respect for the young women we mostly worshiped and had tried hard to impress, mostly unsuccessfully, during our years at Lee. Our secret was out. Girls could play our game. And they were darned good at it.
So, Sarah Fuller is no surprise. All, I can say, Sarah, is what took you so long?
A Message from Bill Robinson
April 23, 2018
Dear Classmates,
It was one year ago today that we gathered in Jacksonville to celebrate our 55th Lee High School Class of 1962 Reunion. Mike Seale and I, along with numerous committee members, did our best to see that everyone who attended had the best time possible. It appears that we succeeded, as the post-reunion survey was very positive, with most responding that they would be in favor of a 60th reunion in 2022.
Since the reunion, Mike, with assistance from many of you, has done a great job of updating and improving the ’62 Lee website, as well as communicating important information via email. This has been a great service for those of us who value learning about how our classmates are doing.
Once again, thanks to all of you who attended the 55th Reunion one year ago, and we hope we were able to rekindle some very happy memories and help you make a some new ones. We will stay in touch, and as 2022 approaches we’ll continue to talk with you about the possibility of a 60th Reunion. Let’s all do our best in the meantime to stay as healthy and happy as possible!
Best wishes,
Bill Robinson
PS. The never-before-seen video of The Highlanders performing “Where Have All the Flowers Gone” at the 55th reunion is now on The Highlanders Page.